Likes with notes (Sparks)
Every like on Paire can carry a short note, so the other person sees why you liked them. Notes are screened for abuse before they are delivered. Everyone gets 25 likes and 1 Super Like a day for free, which keeps likes considered.
See who likes you, free
Your "Likes you" list shows everyone who has liked you, with their note. On many apps this is a paid feature; on Paire it is free for everyone.
Women-first controls
- Notes-only likes: only receive likes that come with a note.
- I'll message first: after a match, only you can start the chat.
- Incognito: only people you like can see your profile.
- Private photos: your photos stay hidden until you match.
- Same intentions only: see only people looking for what you want, from casual to marriage-minded.
- Speaks my language: see people who share a language with you.
All of these are free, and anyone can use them.
Discovery modes
- People: classic photo cards with interests, prompts and a reason you might click.
- Vibe First: see someone's interests, intentions and answers before their photos, then reveal the photos.
- Duos: team up with a best friend and match with another pair for a double date.
- Blind date mode for people who would rather chat first.
- Seasonal editions such as Garba Nights during Navratri.
Paire AI
Paire AI suggests icebreakers based on what you have in common, helps you write a bio, and can rank profiles by shared vibes if you turn on AI matching (opt-in, using only the profile choices you select). It also warns you about scam-style messages in chat.
Real people, checked
Every member confirms their email (temporary inboxes are not allowed) and passes a live selfie check with a random pose that matches them to every profile photo. Read how verification works.
India-specific details
Optional basics include height, languages, education, diet, drinking, smoking and religion. Religion is never used to filter or rank, and there is no caste field. Your exact location is never shown.
Paire Plus
An optional pass with more likes and Super Likes, priority likes and the age-gap filter. See pricing.