Plenty of people on dating apps in India want a long-term partner or marriage, just without the biodata and family committee. Here's how to find them.
Updated · By the Paire team
Say what you want
Set your intention clearly (long-term, marriage-minded) and mention it in your bio. People who want the same thing will appreciate it, and people who don't will move on, which saves everyone time.
Filter for it
On Paire, turn on same intentions only to see only people looking for what you're looking for. Combine it with speaks my language if that matters to you.
What to talk about early
Where each of you sees yourself living in a few years.
How you each think about family, work and children.
How involved your families would want to be.
Values that matter to you (and which don't).
Dating apps vs matrimony sites
Dating app (e.g. Paire)
Matrimony site
Who makes the profile
You
Often family
How you meet
Chat, then date at your pace
Families connect first
Filters
Intentions, languages, interests; no caste on Paire
Often community and caste
Pace
You decide
Often faster, with expectations
Many people use both. If you'd rather meet someone on your own terms first, a dating app with clear intentions works well. Read dating without caste filters.
Questions people ask
Can you find a serious relationship on a dating app in India?
Yes. Set a clear intention, filter for people who want the same (on Paire, 'same intentions only'), and talk about the big things early.
Is Paire a matrimony app?
No. Paire is a dating app for adults that covers everything from casual to marriage-minded dating. You create your own profile and meet at your own pace.